1) Emotional Vampires; People who have loads of friends, find it hard to commit in singular relationships!
2) Ex-Partners; If people stay in contact with their ex's, basically they haven't got over that person yet, and still need to feel loved/liked, no matter how bad they treated them!
3) A Big Bust/chest indicates a person has confidence at the materialistic level, but there is plenty of padding around the heart to prevent them getting to close in a singular relationship!
4) If a person goes for legs, it indicates they are looking for stability in their lives and someone to stand on there own two feet, Mentally, Emotionally and Physcally!
5) If a person goes for looks or bust obviously this means they are looking for a bit of fun in love not a serious relationship!
6) If a person goes for 'Bums' it indicates they are looking for a deep loving relationship. Us girls make this mistake when we go for the 'Bums' in life, rather than the bum of a guy!
7) Wallets: indicate the tradition type of man, who tends to conform to societies conditioning. No Wallets; indicates a more spontaneous type of guy, one who lives for adventure rather than the play it safe type!
8) Some one who has a coin jar around the place, likes to play the fun type but deep down they crave security!
9) If a person won't try anything and everything sexually, it indicates they are holding back emotionally from the relationship!
10) People who use pet names in general, 'Hun, Babe, Darling' etc. although they come over warm and friendly, actually indicates they operate at a surface level. They are always on the look out for the next best thing to come along!
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F A M I L Y
I ran into a stranger as he passed by, "Oh excuse me please" was my reply.
He said, "Please excuse me too; I wasn't watching for you."
We were very polite, this stranger and I. We went on our way and we said goodbye.
But at home a different story is told, How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal, My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down. "Move out of the way," I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken. I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said,
"While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use, but the family you love, you seem to abuse.
Go and look on the kitchen floor, You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you. He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise, you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."
By this time, I felt very small, And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by his bed; "Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.
"Are these the flowers you picked for me?" He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you. I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."
I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today; I shouldn't have yelled at you that way." He said, "Oh, Dad, that's okay. I love you anyway."
I said, "Son, I love you too, and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."
FAMILY Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.
And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don't you think? So what is behind the story?
Do you know what the word FAMILY means? FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU
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41 mistakes men make during sex
1) NO KISSING??? Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.
2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.
3) NOT SHAVING. You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it's not passion, it's avoidance.
4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.
5) BITING HER NIPPLES. Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp down like they're trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they're a dogie toy isn't.
6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES. Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.
7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY. A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.
8) GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED. Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.
9) LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT. Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, you store it.
10) ATTACKING THE CLITORIS. Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris.
11) STOPPING FOR A BREAK. Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.
12) UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY. Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid's toy.
13) GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY. Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.
14) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA. Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you're not careful, it can hurt - so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.
15) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY. You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.
16) UNDRESSING PREMATURELY. Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it's just undoing a couple of buttons.
17) TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST. A man in socks and underpants is a man at his worst. Lose the socks first.
18) GOING TOO FAST. When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool - she'll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.
19) GOING TOO HARD. If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few seconds.
20) COMING TOO SOON. Every man's fear. With reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.
21) NOT COMING SOON ENOUGH. It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it's more likely the mark of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has something to hold her interest while you're playing Marathon Man.
22) ASKING IF SHE HAS COME. You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don't know, don't ask.
23) PERFORMING ORAL SEX TOO GENTLY. Don't act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris.
24) NUDGING HER HEAD DOWN. Men persist in doing this until she's eyeball-to-penis, hoping that it will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate this. It's about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her.
25) NOT SHAVING PT.2 Men seem to like women to be shaved down below. That's fine. But women like that too. That doesn't mean you have to shave it bare (although, that would be nice), but at least keep it neat and trimmed. There's nothing that turns a girl off more than looking at a penis sticking out of a forest.
26) NOT WARNING HER BEFORE YOU CLIMAX. Sperm tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everybody likes it. When she's performing oral sex, warn her before you come so she can do what's necessary.
27) MOVING AROUND DURING FELLATIO. Don't thrust. She'll do all the moving during fellatio. You just lie there. And don't grab her head.
28) TAKING ETIQUETTE ADVICE FROM PORN MOVIES. In X-rated movies, women seem to love it when men ejaculate over them. In real life, it just means more laundry to do.
29) MAKING HER RIDE ON TOP FOR AGES. Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying there grunting while she does all the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so that she doesn't feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her have a rest.
30) ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. This is how men earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don't think that being drunk is an excuse.
31) TAKING PICTURES. When a man says, "Can I take a photo of you?" she'll hear the words "__to show my buddies." At least let her have custody of them.
32) NOT BEING IMAGINATIVE ENOUGH. Imagination is anything from drawing patterns on her back to pouring honey on her and licking it off. Fruit, vegetables, ice and feathers are all handy props; hot candle wax and permanent dye are a no no.
33) SLAPPING YOUR STOMACH AGAINST HERS. There is no less erotic noise. It's as sexy as a belching contest.
34) ARRANGING HER IN STUPID POSES. If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed, fine, but unless she's a Romanian gymnast, don't get too ambitious. Ask yourself if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings.
35) LOOKING FOR HER PROSTATE. Read this carefully: Anal stimulation feels good for men because they have a prostate. Women don't.
36) GIVING LOVE BITES. It is highly erotic to exert some gentle suction on the sides of the neck, if you do it carefully. No woman wants to have to wear turtlenecks and jaunty scarves for weeks on end.
37) BARKING INSTRUCTIONS. Don't shout encouragement like a coach with a megaphone. It's not a big turn-on.
38) TALKING DIRTY. It makes you sound like a lonely magazine editor calling a 1-900 line. If she likes nasty talk, she'll let you know.
39) NOT CARING WHETHER SHE COMES. You have to finish the job. Keep on trying until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you.
40) SQUASHING HER. Men generally weigh more than women, so if you lie on her a bit too heavily, she will turn blue.
41) THANKING HER. Never thank a woman for having sex with you. Your bedroom is not a soup kitchen.
It's Good to Talk!
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Did you know talking is a fast and easy way to increase your mood and energy levels!
That is talking mind you, not moaning or gossiping!
We have all experienced times when we have been engrossed in a conversation with a friend, relative or total stranger, that has mentioned something that relates to us personally. When this happens, it leaves us with food for thought, and we experience a happy, content, lighter mood and flow of energy within us!
This feeling feels better and lasts longer than most sexual encounters, which is the other way we try to lift our moods or exchange energy with someone! That's fine if you have a partner, or are the type to go out and play around sexually. The the rest of us, have to make the most of our day the best we can. We normally feel a bit low, which leads to bad moods then depression, which can last for some time. The more we want somebody to love us, the more we give out this crying energy and push people away from us!
The best thing you can do if your feeling down, lonely, or want some one to love you, is change your energy levels, to give out positive vibs not negative ones! This can be done by talking, chatting or flirting with someone. (but please stay away from married people, that route just leads to trouble!) Whether you talk to a friend or total stranger it doesn't matter, so long as you engage into an interesting conversation, preferably one with joking and laughter involved!
If you have the ability to laugh at yourself, this is good, if not develop it! Medicine is a lot easier to swallow, when you laugh and joke about your problems!
If you have no one to talk to, or want to talk to a stranger without the worry about seeing them again, or saying something wrong, then try out these numbers for professional advice or just for a chat!
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Try it and see the results for your self!
Remember the Universe responds to the energy you put out, so trying to be more light hearted, happy, and fun loving, will bring more abundance to you!
Improve your Energy levels by
1) interacting with lots of people.
2) Keep light hearted about everything.
3) Laugh! It's the best medicine going!
4) Chat and flirt with people!
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10 Facts about Sex!!
Sex is a beauty treatment! Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone oestrogen, which makes hair shine and skin smooth.
Gentle relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering from dermatitis and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.
Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that rom antic dinner.
Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It’s more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps and you don’t need any special equipment.
Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.
The more sex you have the more you will be offered . The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy.
Sex is the safest tranquilliser in the world. It IS 10 TIMES more effective than VALIUM!1
Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages salvia to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of acid that causes decay, preventing plaque build up.
Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.
A lot of love making can un-block a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.
Sex can be the answer to a lot of problems. When we are feeling low, nothing seems to go right for us, yet a bit of TLC seems to lift our energy like a magic wand and life doesn't seem quite so bad! Yet alot of people can't just have sex for the sake of it, however, there are other things you can do, to raise your energy levels. Flirty talking, is an exchange of energy, mixing with people, or chating to them over the phone, all helps improve our self sesteem! Try it, and see for yourselves! Observe how you feel before and after the conversation! If you don't want to interact with local people, try my new phone bar, males and females ring 0905 230 2655,follow the prompts and chat and flirt till your hearts content! All from the safty of your own home, it doesn't matter if it is out of charecter for you, noone will know, and you don't have to see or talk to them again if you don't want to! You can get a real boost of energy to kick start your day!
The Mind & The Emotions
Whether you realise it or not, all our 'Actions' are discided by our Emotions. So what, you may think! But think of it this way. If you have a bee in your bonnet, and you really want to do something, then the emotions will talk your mind into that action. Maybe that is to buy a new TV, or go for a job interview, or fall in love with a certain person. All well and good in this instance, but we know it is not always like that. At times we feel shattered, withdrawn, and don't feel like doing anything. Well again at times, this can be a good thing, it's our bodies way of telling us we need to rest, slow down or take it easy for a while. But there are other times in ALL our lives when the emotions will hold us back! Maybe we want a certain person in our lives, or wish to have a job that we love doing, Maybe in an hindsight situation a brilliant opportunity came along, but at the time, we were uncertain whether it we should take it or not. Looking back, if we were presented with the same opportunity now, we would take it. Why? Only because in the meantime, we have gained new knowledge, understanding and a bit of a track recored that it would have worked out good for us. or at least it would have been better than where you are now! There are lots of little instances in all our lives, that we wished we had done things differently, whether that was speak up when you had the opportunity, or reacted differently to a certain situation, but as we are governed by our emotions we tend to go through life 'REACTING' to circumstances, rather that 'ACTING' on 'LOGIC'.
We have all suffered from bad depression at times, maybe even S.A.D. or Bipolar! When we are in these emotional downward turns, it is extremely difficult to get out of these 'Black Holes'! We know how powerful the emotions are, when we've tried to go on that diet or give up smoking, it is not an easy task! We also know that the more we indulge in the emotional turmoil, the worst it gets! It doesn't make us feel any better, nor when we realise we've missed a fantastic opportunity, because we were in the wrong place at the wrong time! It pretty obviouse that although emotions are a good thing at times, they can also hinder our progress and 'Quality' of life!
So what can we do about them? We can't just indulge in the good and ignore the bad, as we all know, it doesn't work like that. We can indulge in that 'cream cake', 'smoke extra cigerettes', use 'Retail Therapy' or 'go out and partisipate in 'physical activities' with whoever is up for it', but none of these, inspire lasting good emotions, in fact we beat ourselves up, more emotionally because of it, which puts us back in the spiral of things!
So what's the answer? Be a 'Zombie' that would be no life at all, yet we are all 'Zombiefied' by the emotions, and still we do nothing about it, we just live our live's ruled by our emotions!
But it does'nt have to be like that! Emotions are a calling sign, warning us that something is not right in our life! Yet we do not understand this, we weren't taught this at school, and our parents never spoke about them, so we are left to our own devices to figure this out for ourselves!
So lets start figurering! We know when we feel down or depressed, we look at things globally. It's not just, a bad hair day, you also feel your too fat, too thin, no figure, long face, round face, legs look stocky, and is that a spot coming up there, and now your skin looks blotchy, we can find endless faults when we start looking for them, whether it is about us personnally or the situation we are in. And obviousely this does little for our self esteem. So the global route, doesn't help the situation! Bring it back to you! What was the trigger, the first thing that went through your mind in the first place? Bad hair day! well, since hair reveals our emotional state, (one of the reasons, why we spend alot of time on our hair, to hide our true feelings from the world) it is pretty obviouse that it is going to one of those testing days! No point in expecting everything to go your way, cos, your'll only be disappointed! We need the ups & downs in life to stregthen our soul/personality. If everything just happened to fall in your lap, our soul/personality would not grow. It is only through repeated dissapointments, that we get ourselves out of a fantasy world and start to realise life is not that easy! Here we have two options. We can indulge in the negative emotions, expect the worse and live a life of hell, losing friends, retreating into our shell or we can say okay! this is the situation, what can I do about this? You've heard of all these pyschological phrases, if you haven't START READING! Just trying to be positive is not enough, the only way our mind will execpt this type of info, is when we have a LOGICAL reason for this situation. We are only going to figure this out if we open up our minds, rather than use narrow thinking. When we ask ourselves questions, you WILL recieve answers, but you need to understand how these answers are presented. There is 'NO MAGIC WAND' no one else can do this for you, you have to do it yourselve! You are the only one that knows exactly what you are thinking and feeling, and how you have wired up your mind in the first place. (childhood conditioning) people can show you or give information, but you need to be ready to take it on board and understand it for yourself! You also need to understand that the swing of the emotions is a natural balancing out process, we need to experience highs and lows, this is what gives life it's meaning.
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Psychic vs Psychology
Bridging the Gap!
Is there a difference between Psychics and Psychology?
As the Psychic and Paranormal side is coming more into the ‘Limelight’ these days along with the increasing awareness of Psychology, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Positive Motivation. By Life Coaches, Hypnotherapy, Counselling, Sports Psychologists and Psychotherapists, now is a good time to bring the two sides together through the Media! ‘PSYCHIC vs PSYCHOLOGY’! Is there a difference in the two or not?
The answer is ‘NO’ not really!
Being a natural born Psychic Medium, working for the last 20 years as a International Psychic Medium and Parapsychologist, ‘Human Behaviour Governed by the Universal Laws’. I have also studied Psychology for the same period of time and hold a Diploma in Sports Psychology. Having spent all of this time, ‘Intensely’ looking into this ‘Grey area’ between the Psychic side and the Psychology side, writing courses and books along the way, I recognise the only difference there is between the two, is in the ‘Choice’ of words used! However, neither Plain Psychology nor the Psychic side has all the answers, it is only the ‘COMBINATION’ of both that reveals the WHOLE TRUTH!
Both sides agree with bringing the three aspects of ourselves together or in to alignment, ‘Mental, Emotional and Physical in Psychology’ terms and ‘Mind, Body and Spirit (Emotions) by Spiritual’ terms! The term Synergy, is used by Psychologists to describe the energy created by a group of people. i.e. when a group of football fans get together, it creates an atmosphere, the same for a rock concert, or any other form of meeting where two or more people come together, the individuals energy is amplified and creates an atmosphere which we can all feel. Like when we walk into a room and you can cut the atmosphere with a knife!
This same ‘Synergy’ is also referred to as Spirit by Psychics/Mystics! Psychics/Mediums, Clairvoyants and Healers read the energy around a person known as an aura. This aura contains the personal energy but also the group’s energy that the person is associated with! Mystics, Psychics and Mediums are reading the groups Synergy, in other words ‘thoughts and expectations’ of the required/desired results, along with the individual’s energy. When subconscious/conscious thoughts and expectations change so does the ‘Synergy’, therefore it will effect the outcome of a given situation!
What is Synergy and what does it Do?
Synergy is The Mass Consciousness’ and the Higher Consciousness, Spirit or Guiding Force that moves us forwards in life. Synergy amplifies our personal energy, Humans are social/pack animals, we know when we’re with a group of friends we‘re happier within ourselves. We also find inner strength to deal with situations, like people daring us to do something, or guiding us through a problem. Or standing up for the ‘under dog’, but not usually for ourselves. The old sayings, ‘Birds of a feather flock together,’ or ‘Like attracts like’ are true. People of like minds or similar personal lessons will come together by group energy with family, friends or work/social associates all subconsciously working on personal issues for the whole group. Like Football/Rugby fans etc. come together, their common goal is to support their ‘Team!’ This Synergy works the same way for all individuals in a group, to enhance their personal issues as it does for sport or anything else! The purpose of it is to AMPLIFY the energy to give extra personal strength to move all people forwards through the wobbly emotions in their lives!
This Synergy is also referred to in the bible that when two or more people come together in the name of God, I will be there! This Synergy/Spirit is energy, like Electricity you can’t see it, but you know it is there. How many times have you thought of some one then they have phoned, or had similar ideas/problems as friends or associates? This Synergy is the ‘Telepathy link’.
The purpose of both sides is to be balanced Mentally, Emotionally/Spiritually and Physically. Psychology approaches this subject from the mind, Spiritual people approach it from the Emotional/ Synergy! The end result, both sides are striving for the same common goal, to become whole or Balanced!
Through Psychology it is promoted to Act and think positively to overcome the wobbly emotions to obtain your physical goal, whether that is one area of your life, like sports, hobbies, work or relationships or life as a whole! The spiritual side, promotes faith in Spirit/Yourself to over ride obstacles on your path! Both sides mean the same and are half way there, but not totally. Being optimistic, thinking positively and putting thoughts into action does work a majority of the time on both sides. However, no amount of positive thinking is going to override intense Karmic emotional situations! The one thing both sides have in common is that there is a ‘Guiding Force’, whatever term you like to give it! Destiny, Fate, or Sods Law! Either way, they agree, there are ‘Universal Laws’ in operation.
Pythagorus is the forefather of Astrology and Numerology, he discovered that the Universe works in a mathematical system of patterns! Something which is still being agreed and proved by scientist today! These Systems of Patterns otherwise known as Universal Laws is what governs all ‘Human Beings’ whether you like it or not! Sorry it is the only law that no matter how hard you try, you can not cheat this system!
Synergy/Spirit is the guiding force through life, bringing you into contact with people and situations that will enhance your Souls/Personal growth.
Most of the time it is a gentle learning curve, dealing with small obstacles one by one. Other times, we have intense learning curves, ‘Over due’ lessons to learn! These are the Intense Emotional Karmic situations we encounter that, makes us crumble and fall apart on all levels! We know a pile of ‘Manure,’ promotes growth, we use it on the garden!
No amount of ‘Positive thinking,’ is going to over ride these situations. Nor is getting Emotionally upset to the point where you just cannot cope with daily life! Spirit/Synergy does not have the magic wand either, that’s what brought you to this place in your life!
So what is the answer?
Personal Responsibility It's the combination of Mind, (Thoughts), Body (Physical) and Spirit, (Emotions) working together as one to bring you back into alignment! The only way to clear these Mental, Emotional and Physical Blocks are through ‘UNDERSTANDING’, what’s going on, your past track record and taking Personal Responsibility for your actions! This information now becomes ‘LOGIC’ not the ‘emotional turmoil it once was! With all, this group Synergy around, it is difficult to find ‘US’ in all this! These Karmic situations promote us to look deep within our ‘Soul’ to find ourselves. By looking back and seeing a pattern running through our lives, we can start to piece together the bits of the jigsaw puzzle that makes us, our personality, the way we are!
Most of the time we have loads of friends, associates and people in our lives, separating and spreading our energy/selves at a surface level, thinly amongst numbers. The more people you have in your life, the more separated and out of balance you are! The saying ‘Quality not Quantity’ springs to mind here, if all people you associate with are positive and focused on their life path, and achieving their goals, then the energy is good and promotes us forwards in life. However, since the average human mind is constantly worrying about, bills, finances, relationships, children, the price of baked beans and everyone else’s problems. All that is happening is that they are loading your aura with all these negative worries and problems preventing you from achieving your life's ambitions or goals!
It is only when we have a load of fertiliser dumped on us that we start the inward journey (spiritual) and question our thoughts, feelings and desires. This is the time we can really start to find ourselves. Bringing the separated parts of us back together again. (We normally recluse from people, but keep the odd one or two Good friends to talk too!) downloading the emotional baggage, (Synergy) and our own out dated limiting rules, values, beliefs and thoughts. Most of which were formed in our childhood years. Psychologists say you spend the rest of your life over coming the first 7 years! We are trying to live in an adult world, with childish emotions, thoughts, actions and reactions!
Like we teach our children, that they don’t get what they want if they throw an emotional tantrum, Universal Laws teach us the same way. These intense situations normally occur in relationships, as it is in the affairs of the heart, that we are more vulnerable. The more we ‘Lust, Want, and allow the emotions to run wild through us’, the more ‘Universal Law’, say ‘No No, your out of balance, stop your tantrum then you can have it! But like the child, we do not understand this, all we know is that you want something, and you can’t have it!
It is through a lack of ‘Understanding’ that we don’t achieve our dreams, because we take the childish route of clinging to something rather than accepting change, or dealing with our emotions! It is the emotions that make us feel uncomfortable that, we keep avoiding in life! Sooner or later they are going to catch up with us, it is the only way that our ‘Soul/Personal Growth’ learns to deal with change and new experiences that lead us forwards in life. If we hadn’t confronted the emotions and set backs, as children when we first began to walk, we wouldn’t be up and walking on our own two feet now! Become like little children to enter the kingdom of Heaven! Children explore, they are into everything, they are curious and want to know about the world they live in, yet we spend the first 7 years telling them to leave, don’t touch, be careful it’s dangerous, shouting and getting angry with them. Now wonder why we find it so hard to confront and deal with our emotions, when most of the time we have been limited to only doing enough to get by!
Emotional Mastery is what life is all about!
Being able to live life to the full, go out and experience the world and all it has got to offer, we then experience the full range of the emotions, we understand things by our experiences, yet most of us are content to just get through life, rather than living it! Emotions is what makes us alive, it gives us Soul satisfaction, when we achieve new experiences in life. The emotions are there, to be used not buried or avoided!
Both Psychology and the Mystic route strive to get there, but through different channels. Until a higher level of understanding is reached within the ‘Individual Soul’, we will keep encountering these Intense Karmic situations and obstacles on our path! More and more people are beginning to accept counselling, life coaching or turn to psychics and the alternative therapies to deal with mental, emotional or physical problems in their lives. Both routes, are a starting point, but the real answers once you know how to retrieve them lie inside you!
As Psychology is directed to the mind, and Spiritual to the Emotions, the one thing they both leave out is the ‘Physical Body’! Both promote people to look after it, but fail to explain why! Mind, Body and Spirit, or Mental, Emotional and Physical, it is the balance of all three that counts!
Mystics tend to suffer from health problems, cancer, diabetes, poor eye sight, hearing, every part of their body starts to fail them. All the top mediums, healers I know all have health conditions. Why? Psychologist tend to live in the mind, rather than being physically active. They also have health problems to varying degrees! Athletes have physical injuries normally from worn out parts of the body.
Health problems occur when we are out of balance. Emotions release ‘Poisonous Toxins’ into the body, so as a Psychic working with this emotional energy, it is easy to see why they experience so many health problems. (The same as emotional people, we are all psychic) From the psychology route, yes being positive about life certainly helps, so does the understanding gained about how the mind works! But we still encounter intense emotions that no amount of positive thinking is going to shift! This route tends to lead to heart attacks a hardening of the arteries reflects a hard attitude towards life! Physically active, ignoring mind and emotions doesn’t work either, as the athlete will tell you. It is only the combination of Mind, Body and Spirit/Emotions that will give you peace of mind and good health!
Physical exercise grounds the emotional energy, therefore your thoughts are clearer. However, we all know it is not as easy as that! To be motivated to exercise we need to be in the right frame of mind, but the emotions can prevent us from achieving that. Therefore your thoughts turn inwards to the emotions, we become more lethargic, so the cycle continues, this is where we are out of balance, No discipline!
To bring ourselves back into balance we need to be pushing our Mental, Emotional and Physical bodies to the limit! To make the best use of the ‘tools’ we have been given! We all, have in built ‘Desires’ to better ourselves, or what we have! It is only when we are being driven by something that we feel totally alive! Confront and over come the Mental, Emotional and Physical obstacles on your path. Deal with them head on by speaking your truth, not what the other person wants to hear, make decisions and move forwards. Mix with people higher up the ladder than you, ride on the slip stream energy to excel in life!
This is the purpose of our lives, to live it to the full!
So what is it, Psychic or Psychology? An understanding of both!
Open a ‘NEW DOORWAY’ to the ‘Human Spirit’ by whatever route suits you, but start the journey! For a consultation or Info pack, Contact Gina on 0844 415 117
